Summarizing April 2016

In a blink of an eye, 7 days has passed since my birthday.
I always love April because its my birthday month.
However, this year wasn't a good one for me.
I felt that I was so fragile in the month of April.
I can almost stick a tag to myself stating "Fragile! Please handle with care" to let people know that I am really fragile now and any small matter can break me into pieces. :(

Anyway the purpose of this post is to summarize my celebration with the important people who took the initiative to ask me out.
Be it celebration or catching up, I am very appreciate by the gesture.
Not forgetting those who also gave me gifts.
Thanks to all!

20 April 2016

Lunch treat from boss for CS and my birthday at Manna Korean Restaurant.

In the night, I met up with Winnie for dinner at Dazzling Cafe Pink.

This plate of Mentaiko Fries is good!
Chicken cutlet with sunny side eggs.

Matcha Waffles with Azuki beans



22 April 2016

Met up with Sheauwei at Vivocity and had lunch at Jamie's Italian Restaurant.








Came back home and saw dad give me a red packet!
Normally, he'd just gave me cash, but different this year. Haha~


23 April 2016

New DP and I feel chio. hahaha~
However, I feel like I got cheena face.
DID NOT edit my features and filter but I know I looked quite different.
It is because due to my makeup. :)

Anyway, actual day leave it to hub-to-be.

At first, he suggested to go for brunch but you see the past few days I had been having western food and I was sick of it.
So why you no ask me first? Lol..
In the end, I suggested to go for dim sum and we had it at Tak Po Chinatown.

I took picture to show my girlfriends and one of them ask what the round bun in green was.
She also commented that it looked like dinosaur egg. LOL!
So I took a second pic to show her..

Feeling and looking good that day, so need to do #OOTD lah...

Nothing much that day just walk around the town etc..
Then have dinner at Swensen..




30 April 2016

Today met up with another group of girls at CWP.
Its just another monthly catch up.
Didn't stay out long as I need to do assignment.


I haven been eating chocolate flavors for ice-cream.
I think its a good thing that I am exploring other flavors rather than just chocolate. Haha~



Alritey, time flies and in less than 1hr, it will be May!
MAY I conquer all obstacles and be stronger!
MAY everything gets better!
MAY everything be better for you too. :)

Hmm...

So I gotten my term 4 results today and I did okay, at least I passed.
I was luckier than the others for C&O module because I gotten more than expected marks.
In fact, I was really surprised by my result.
I know that 3 of my classmates who didn't do well.
One of them, is one of my closest classmates.
However, after knowing the result, she kinda gave me a cold treatment.
While we were walking to class, she told my another classmates that the topic we do were similar.
Just that, both of us wrote on different company.
She sort of implying that why I passed but she failed.
I am unsure if its was because of this issue that she gave me cold treatment.
Previously, we sort of discussed on what the topic to write, but our content is totally different and I didn't seen her draft before.
At the end of the day, the lecturer feels that I deserved the marks then it's not me to be blamed mah..
Sigh.. I hope its just me overthinking.
Even my other classmates can see that I looked sad and was very quiet in class today...

Totally brain dead now..
I haven eaten for the past 12hrs.
My lunch was at around 11.30am and its 11.15pm when I got home..
Feeling so hungry and tired...
Hopefully it will be a better day tomorrow...

At Last Stage of 20s

祝我生日快乐！

是二十岁数的最后一个阶段喽～

在这最后的365天后就要踏出二十了！

已尽不年轻了！*哭哭*

很开心很庆幸在我完成人生的这个阶段前，我已满足自己的许多个愿望。

就像旅游啊去了很多地方，拿到驾照啊，做了眼睛的镭射手术（爱漂亮），还有最最最重要就是快要完成degree了！

但是毕业典礼可能会在明年的七月举行，因为今年的已错过了。:(

无论如何都在我三十岁之前满足了！

其实真的很需要谢谢许多帮助我的人。

如果没有他/她们的帮助，也许我也不会有闲杂这些成绩。

下个人生阶段已计划好就是结婚，建立家庭，生小孩！

这些都是个人生部分的考验。
啊~ 还有赚很多钱，更多旅行计划！哈哈~

人生苦短，有些人可能都没有我幸运，所以我也要知足。

波折是难免的，这样才会成长。

如果这些事都是命运，那我也会坦然的去完成它。

最后，我要谢谢帮我庆生，带我吃大餐，送我礼物的朋友们。
谢谢记得我的生日，问候我的朋友们。
谢谢爱我的人。

怒！

我明白也了解在这世界上有很多不同种类的人。
而不同的人也会有不同的期望。

工作也不只是如此而已，何必把自己弄成那么累。

但可能是最近因为太多压力了，所以心情低落。

加上朋友的关心，所以情绪失控哭了。

说起来是很丢脸的事，但我做了这么多年的工作，这里是受最多的委屈了。

我知道不用理会那些讨人厌的人，但是他们一而再再而三的激怒我，令我非常生气！

想一想，我是非常的傻啦……

要不是金积问题，我早就不在了，何必忍受这些…

唉～经过今天，我觉得我真的是不够坚强。

希望我可以再坚强一些！

I gonna go back stronger tomorrow!

Wedding: Wedding Banquet

I swear (for now) selecting the banquet is the most headache decision but finally we've settled it today.
Well, I guess in the later stage, there will be more headaches to come.

Actually I was thinking of delaying the wedding ceremony.
However, while chatting with sis, I voiced out that we didn’t want to have wedding ceremony and getting the house at the same time.
We will be heavily debt if we do so.
My suggestion is that you can have a time frame of few months to a year – hold your wedding ceremony first then wait for your house to come.
If you are lucky to break-even the banquet cost from the hongbao money, the money can help to cover your house renovation expenses.
If you can’t break-even, at least you have a time frame to save up for it.
I think it quite make sense, don't you think so?
I am the CFO of this marriage, so all the accounting stuffs is managed by me. LOL!

Okay back to topic… so why do I say selecting wedding banquet is the most headache thing for me?
Because there are so many factors that I have to consider - Price, Venue, No. of Tables needed, etc.
We use websites like Singaporebrides and KiasubrideWebsite to narrow down our selections.
As I was busy juggling with school, assignments and work, G was the one who do the email liaising with the coordinators.
I am thankful to have him helping out and most of the time he accommodates with my ideas and opinions and we didn’t have much conflicts.

In the initial stage, I was considering Orchid Country Club (OCC) and Rendezvous Hotel.
OCC was because my dad wants me to choose, but dropped the idea later due to the inconvenience for our guests.
While, Rendezvous hotel was due to the good location and rather good price. However, the dates that we looked into was booked.

At last, we narrowed down to M Hotel and Novotel Hotel and went for hotel inspection respectively last month.

M Hotel
We viewed the Anson Ballroom and Banquet Ballroom and I really like Banquet Room.
Banquet Ballroom is spacious with high ceiling and it can accommodates a minimum of 25 tables.
I don’t like Anson Ballroom because it is low ceiling and it looks cramped.
The layout of the room is in a long rectangular shape.
Banquet Ballroom has a VIP room and bride can do their changing of gown there instead of going up to the bridal room.
As we will be holding our solemnization on that day itself, the downside is that the Banquet Ballroom area doesn’t have a small room to hold solemnization and they will be using part of the reception area to hold it which, I thought that it might be quite rush.
Other than the ballroom, the coordinator who is a lady, was really nice and I felt really comfortable discussing related issues with her.

This is the look of the Banquet Ballroom (Source: Google image)

Novotel Hotel
We viewed the Phoenix Ballroom and Cinnamon Ballroom.
Phoenix Ballroom is the bigger ballroom in Novotel, however minimum number they can hold is 30 tables which we don’t have so many guests.
Hence, we can only look at Cinnamon Ballroom.
The Cinnamon Ballroom is better than the Anson Room as it is more of a squarish layout.
It ceiling is quite low but overall looks okay.
The downside is that, it has a pillar at a part of the room which might block the view of the guests.


This is the look of the Cinnamon Ballroom (Source: Google Image)


The small pillar in the Cinnamon Ballroom (Source: Google Image)

Final Decision
Both prices and perks are almost similar but it was quite difficult to decide which to go ahead.
We did soft booking for the dates we wanted for both of the hotel.
I really wanted M hotel however, the other couples before us decide to book with M Hotel, so we loses our chance.
The coordinator of M hotel did try to convince us to change to an earlier date but our budget will not be enough to cover if we bring forward.
G also does not want a later date.
In the end, we decided to go ahead with Novotel.

All in all, I can say, it is finally beginning...

Famous Femme Fatale and Their Killer Curves

femme fatale
is an attractive and seductive woman, especially one who will ultimately cause distress to a man who becomes involved with her.

Femme fatale icons such as Rita Hayworth and Marilyn Monroe lie in a deadly combination of a to-die-for body and an irresistible air of mystery that makes them so intriguing and desirable.
Another example will be celebrity like Lana Del Rey, who are also well known for always taking inspiration from old Hollywood glamour.
This shows that mysterious woman with dark charms and killer curves never loses its appeal.
I feel that fitness is the way to get those killer curves.

It is important to keep fit as it keeps ones healthy.
Many women's body woes are those stubborn fats at different parts of the body that wouldn’t go away.
As an office lady, who sits in the office most of the time, I too, have the same problem as many ladies.
Due long periods of sitting day-in and day-out and not exercising, my weight has been increasing and accumulates body fats.
This is because fats are not burning in my body.
I've been reading up fitness exercise articles and also watching online videos to give me tips on how to lose the stubborn fats on targeted areas and help me achieve the body that I wanted.
So far, the articles and online videos have been a great help!
Therefore, in order to have a killer body, diet and workout works together in achieving it.

There's a saying that "there's no ugly woman in this world, just lazy ones".
If you want to feel good, you have to work it out.
So choice is yours. :)

频率

4几年前，我tweet过"Person with too much knowledge, bores me. Person w/o much knowledge, irritates me"。
我觉得人与人之间没有同样的频率是真的有点难相处。

就像一个人有很多的知识，但我不明白他在说什么，我会觉得那些话题很无趣。
相比之下，如果另一个人，没有我有的那个知识的程度，我会觉得丢牛弹琴，会让我很厌烦。

所以呢，我认为要有相同的频率相处就会无话不说，快乐，不无聊。
你认为呢？

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其实想了想有知识的比没知识来的好。

有知识的人会让我增添多点知识。

没知识的会让我更烦。

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Hello April~

Start of a new month, my favorite month of the year and its April's Fool Day!
Thought I'll start the month feeling better but doesn't really seem so.
For the past few days, I was very very busy with work.
To the point, I don't even know what I am doing anymore.
Maybe today I got a little worked up, and ranted too much, and almost scolded someone in the office.
Hence, I guessed I was being misunderstand as in a bad mood today.
Felt bad because it was my fault in the end.
Well, I did apologized to the person so I am not guilty. Haha..
Anyway, I was down with a bad cough and sore throat for the past few days but still need to carry on with work.
钱难赚啊~

I think sometimes when it comes to fate, it's difficult to escape from it.
Of all places where I thought it's not easy to bump into someone I might know, I was still able to bump into this person. -_-"
Well, I'll just treat it as its an April's Fool joke that fate has for me.

Hmm.. counting down to 20 plus days, I'll be entering the last year of being a twenty-something. #aging
Time for some reflection!
I'll be back.